| Pulling a Wayne
I put on a belt the other day and missed one of the loops on my pants. My brother Steve and I used to call this “pulling a Wayne,” a reference to our father who would frequently do this. Yes, we do become like our parents — whether we want to or not.
A 2020 article in Psychology Today explains that this happens due to “family scripts” that describe the acceptable ways we behave, speak and think. It says there are three types of these scripts: replicative, corrective and improvised. Without getting into the weeds too much, here are some brief explanations of each, according to the story.
Replicative scripts are ones you repeat from your family of origin, whether consciously or unconsciously.
Corrective scripts occur when a person consciously chooses to do things very differently, or even opposite from, the scripts they experienced growing up.
Improvised scripts are born out of necessity or curiosity. They are not a replication or a correction of the past but are rather new and often spontaneous.
A more humorous explanation of why we become like our parents can be found at cracked.com, which says the behaviors of the elderly that we write off as “old-person lameness” are all based in biology, and that, no, we can't stop them.
This story says as we age, our brains will stop getting pleasure from new music (agreed); our physical urge to rebel will fade away (sure); our brains will start getting pleasure from boring stuff (yep); it will become physically impossible to sleep in (no doubt); us men will stop trying to change the world (never wanted to); we will find ourselves eating bland food because we can't taste it (or because spicy foods don’t digest like they used to?); and our memories of the past will become “The Good Old Days” (explains most of my columns).
As for missing the belt loops? Well, I will chalk that up to three things: 1) the odds have increased since I now wear a belt every day; 2) a decrease in my range of flexibility; and 3) I really don’t care — and not necessarily in that order.
Have a terrific Tuesday, and thanks for reading.
Shane Goodman Editor and Publisher Times Vedette digital newsletter shane@gctimesnews.com 641-332-2707
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| Guthrie County Supervisors deny rezoning request
By Rich Wicks | Times Vedette
During the regular Oct. 29 meeting of the Guthrie County Board of Supervisors, the supervisors heard a request to appeal the zoning administrator’s decision for a building permit at 3276 268th St. in Stuart.
The requestor, identified as Mr. Bagby, explained that he would like to build a small house and six cabins for the purpose of a nonprofit religious 501(c)3 community on the land. He said it would not be considered a church but a ministry.
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| No vending machine for Michael Mills Park
By Rich Wicks | Times Vedette
During the Oct. 28 meeting of the Panora City Council, councilmembers discussed a recommendation from the Parks and Recreation Board to purchase a vending machine and place it at Michael Mills Park.
The recommendation stated that it is becoming difficult to staff the concession stand at the park, and a vending machine would produce income year-round. The suggested machine would cost $8,954 and would hold refrigerated foods and drinks.
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| Guthrie Center City Council sets hearing on urban renewal
By Rich Wicks | Times Vedette
During the Oct. 28 regular meeting of the Guthrie Center City Council, City Clerk Kris Arrasmith asked the council to consider approving the city’s downtown TIF area for another five years. The council unanimously approved this.
The council set a public hearing on the Urban Renewal Plan Amendment for the Guthrie Center Urban Renewal Area. The public hearing will happen in conjunction with the regular city council meeting on Monday, Nov. 25.
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| Beggar's Night date change in Panora
In the interest of public safety and updated weather forecasts, the Mayor has decided to move Beggar's night from Wednesday to Thursday evening. The times will remain the same. Severe weather is forecast to begin early Wednesday afternoon with active storms through the evening hours. | |
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| | Crisp morning welcomes Healthiest State walkers | | | | | | By Rich Wicks | Times Vedette
On a brisk 30-degree morning Oct. 26, Panora’s Healthiest State community walk was held along the Raccoon River Valley Trail. Organizer Sue Bump reported the event was a success.
“It was a chilly morning but totally worth the fresh freeze and viewing the fall foliage,” Bump said. | | | | | | See more photos | |
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| | Panora Book Club marks 30 years | | | | | | By Rich Wicks | Times Vedette
On Friday, Oct. 25, the Panora Book Club celebrated its 30th anniversary. Although the monthly meetings are usually held at the Panora Library, this celebration was held at B&B Marketplace, just for the fun of it. Hot drinks and sweet treats were enjoyed by all.
Anyone interested in joining the book club is welcome to ask at the Panora Library for more information. | | | | | | See more photos | |
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| | Dueling Pianos strikes a winning note for Little Charger | | | | | | By Rich Wicks | Times Vedette
The Dueling Pianos event at the Guthrie County Fairgrounds had a theme of “Back to the 80s,” and many attendees showed up in their best 1980s outfits. The event was a fundraiser for the Little Charger Early Learning Center, and many silent auction items, donated by local merchants and supporters, were available for bid.
PICTURED: Coach Mike Ditka (AKA Terry Betts) was present but no sign of “Da Bears.” | | | | | | See more photos | |
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| | Haunting for lights | | | | | | By Rich Wicks | Times Vedette
The Main Street Guthrie Center organization held a haunted house fundraiser on the evenings of Oct. 25 and Oct. 26 at the Laughery Construction building, 302 Prairie St. Once inside, attendees/victims were subjected to an array of creepy sights and sounds, scary characters, and things that went “bump” in the night.
The event was a fundraiser to help pay for the lighting along the top of downtown buildings in Guthrie Center. | | | | | | See more photos | |
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| | The last report on Iowa’s fall colors | | | | | | From the Iowa Department of Natural Resources
The fall color season is winding down in the northeast corner of Iowa. Oak trees are providing most of the fall colors now with their shades of red, yellow and bronze.
Fall color is past peak in north central and northwest Iowa. Many species show their yellows including green ash, ironwood, hackberry, hickory, cottonwood, elms and walnut. Poison ivy and Virginia creeper are showing red along with sumac and dogwoods.
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| Help decorate the square for the holidays
Special to the Times Vedette
Join members of the Panora Chamber of Commerce in decorating the town square with holiday spirit on Sunday, Nov. 3 at 2 p.m. | |
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| 5th annual Turkey Trot on Thanksgiving Day
Special to the Times Vedette
Reshape Fitness Studio celebrates the fifth annual Turkey Trot at Twin Vines on Thanksgiving Day. This trot is a 3-mile, all-terrain trot over the hills of Guthrie County at Twin Vines. Start time is 7:30 a.m. so you have plenty of time to get home to celebrate the day with family and friends. Early bird fee is $35 till Oct. 31. The price increases throughout November. Register at https://secure.getmeregistered.com/get_information.php?event_id=139768. | |
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| Cribbage results from Oct. 25 and Oct. 28
Special to the Times Vedette
On Oct. 25, a total of 13 players participated. Larry Gardiner got a 16, 18 and 24. Peggy Byrd got three 16s. Allen Pierce got a 16, and Lillian Gilson got a 21.
On Oct. 28, a total of 12 players participated. Sue Mozingo got a 21, Allen Pierce got a 16 and a 20, and Dave Richter got a 24. Jim Carico, Chet Vaughan. Joanne Zieser, Sandy Rumelhart, and Bob Batschelet all produced a 16.
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| James Jess Steburg | | | | | | 1945-2024
James Jess Steburg (Jim), 79, son of Jess and Dorothy (Martin) Steburg, was born July 30, 1945, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.
After WWII and Jess’s honorable discharge from the U.S. Army, the Steburg family returned to their hometown of Fort Dodge. Jim attended school in Fort Dodge, graduating from Fort Dodge High School in 1963, and subsequently Iowa Central Community College.
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| Janice Charlene Lehman | | | | | | 1942-2024
Janice Charlene Lehman, 82, gained her angel wings on Oct. 26, 2024. She was born at home, a farmstead near Coon Rapids, on Aug. 23, 1942, an only child to George and Mildred (Cameron) Christensen. Janice graduated from Guthrie Center High School in 1961. This was where she met the love of her life, Kenneth Lehman. Kenny drove the school bus as a junior and senior in high school for all the other school kids. This is where the two met and began their courtship.
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| Jessie Arletta Raymer | | | | | | 1933-2024
Jessie Arletta Raymer, 91, daughter of Carl and Florence (Sturdevant) Badger, was born July 14, 1933, in Panora. She passed away Saturday, Oct. 26, 2024, at Bishop Drumm Care Center in Johnston.
Arletta graduated from Bagley High School in 1951. She then went to work at Meredith Publishing Company where she met Dale Raymer. They were married on Nov. 13, 1954, at the Christian Church in Des Moines.
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| | Iowa Crop Progress and Condition Report | | | | | | Released by the USDA National Agricultural Statistics Service
Iowa Secretary of Agriculture Mike Naig commented on the Iowa Crop Progress and Condition Report released by the USDA National Agricultural Statistics Service. The report is released weekly April through November. Additionally, the Iowa Department of Agriculture and Land Stewardship provides a weather summary each week during this time.
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| More than 90 calls this week including Guthrie County Deputy checking on an illegal fire in rural Yale; Guthrie County Deputy attempting to locate a wanted individual in rural Coon Rapids; and Guthrie County Deputy responding to a report of an assault in rural Dexter.
10-21-2024
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1:30 a.m. Stuart Rescue, Guthrie County Deputy and Stuart Police responded to a medical call in rural Dexter
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9:25 a.m. Guthrie County Deputy responded to an animal call in Bagley
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10:10 a.m. Panora Police did a civil standby
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10:30 a.m. Guthrie County Deputy responded to questions about a court order in Yale
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10:40 a.m. Guthrie County Deputy responded to a report of an abandoned vehicle in Yale
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| | Chargers advance, defeat Wayne, 28-0 | | | | | | By Cyote Williams | Times Vedette
ACGC (9-0) blanked Wayne at home on Friday, Oct. 25 in Class A first-round playoffs. Jathan South went 3/4 in the air with 55 yards. The Chargers spread out the rushing attack. Mike Fuller led with 18 carries for 92 yards and one TD. Joe Crawford had 10 carries for 77 yards. South contributed 10 carries for 50 yards and two TDs. Brexton Schneider also had seven carries for 43 yards and one TD. South’s completions went to three different receivers: one to Crawford for 30 yards, one to Thomas Skram for 20 yards and one to Payton Policky for 5 yards.
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PICTURED: No. 3 Jathan South leaves a trail of Wayne defenders in his wake on his way to a touchdown. Photo by Mark Reno | | | | | | Read the full story | |
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| | More than just books | | | | | | By Karen Kelly | Special to the Times Vedette
Friends of the Library have many plans and can use your help. On Nov. 7, Friends of the Guthrie Center Library will hold a bake sale from 5-8 p.m. to coincide with the Holiday Showcase at the park by the corner of Dowd Drug. Contact the library for additional information if you want to bake and donate items for the bake sale.
Mary J. Barnett Library is taking registrations for trees to be set up for the library’s annual Festival of Trees. The theme this year is Christmas Stories. Please call the library or register online if you want to decorate a tree for this event.
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PICTURED: Be sure to stop in the MJB Library to see the collection of Batmobile models on loan to us for the month of October. The collection belongs to Felipe Castillo. | | | | | | Read the full story | |
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| MJB Library offers debut novel ‘Montgomery and the Case of the Golden Key’ during Worldwide Digital Book Club | | | | | | Special to the Times Vedette
Get ready to embark on an enchanting journey through Washington Park, Chicago with Montgomery “Monty” Carver in Montgomery and the Case of the Golden Key, by debut author Tracy Occomy Crowder.
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| Congregate Meals are served at Sneakers Café, Monday through Friday, in the Guthrie County Hospital. No meals are available on major holidays or during inclement weather. This service is available for seniors ages 60 and older. No reservation is needed. All menus follow Elderbridge-approved menus and provide at least one-third of the nutritional needs of individuals 60 and older. Menus are subject to change. For more information on these services, call 641-332-3818. | |
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| | 30 years ago | | | | | | From the archives of The Guthrie Center Times, Oct. 26, 1994
COWBOYS, COWGIRLS AND A WITCH. These five first-graders at Guthrie Center Elementary look as if they're ready for Halloween. Actually, they're dressed up in western garb for Red Ribbon Week. Front row, from left, Austin Willms and Cory Herron. Back row: Shannon Rees, Dawn Goehring and Katie Lloyd. | | | | | | See more Yester Years | |
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| | Gourmet dinners raise big money at charity auctions | | | | | | Bill and Karen Fitzgerald have raised significant funds for many causes.
By Susan Thompson | Lake Panorama Times, October 2024
Charitable giving comes in many forms. Some people simply write a check. Others enjoy attending fundraising events where they can bid on silent and live auction items. Still others donate auction items that get the attention of potential bidders.
Bill and Karen Fitzgerald are in that third category. The gourmet dinners they offer at charity auctions have raised significant funds for many causes. A good example is the $15,100 raised for five dinners sold over the last four years at Friends of Lake Panorama Beach Balls.
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