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Monday, Nov. 3, 2025
Good morning to you! 

Most of us would agree that the English language can be fickle. Words that we thought had one clear meaning change from generation to generation. It’s even a challenge for editors of most dictionaries to keep up.

Several years ago, I was coaching a young man in wrestling and showed him a new move. “That’s sick,” he told me with a big smile on his face. I wasn’t sure what he meant, but he did what I told him to do and seemed appreciative. Sick, in my mind, meant that something or someone was wrong, damaged or even perverted. He meant it as a compliment, at least I think so.

Similarly, some people of a younger generation use the word “wicked” when praising someone or something. Wicked, to me, means something distressing or immoral or evil. Today, not so.

Going a step further, when you now hear that someone is “killing it,” you should not call the police — at least not right away. “Killing it” now means someone is doing a great job. Not too long ago, “killing it” would have meant someone failed miserably. Or, of course, it would mean the physical act of murder, which would not be good.

I started thinking about these words and phrases with double meanings when I was revisiting the power of — and the need for — discipline in our lives. Just mention the word “discipline,” and some folks envision a reprimand or a punishment. It has a complete negative connotation for them. As a verb, that can be true.

Others see “discipline” entirely differently. As a noun, it can mean a type of systematic training or self-control. It can be mental or physical, but its intent is to create improvement through structure.

Like the aforementioned words, the definition of discipline may change for us as we age. When younger, we often reject rules and structure and order. As we grow older, we begin to understand the need for discipline, and we often yearn for it, as we know it creates habits that actually help us improve.

Diet. Exercise. Knowledge. Relationships. Discipline plays into our lives in more ways than we want to admit. If we truly want to improve, we need to stick to proven structures with steps to get us there. That’s the power of discipline, and when we learn how to kill it, it's wickedly sick.

Have a memorable Monday, and thanks for reading.

Shane Goodman
Publisher
Big Green Umbrella Media
shane@dmcityview.com
515-953-4822, ext. 305
www.thedailyumbrella.com

See more of Shane Goodman's columns here.

 
News headlines

FROM KCCI: Delay in EBT Funds causes record demand at Urbandale Food Pantry. The Urbandale Food Pantry experienced an unprecedented surge in demand Saturday morning as families lined up hours before opening, driven by delays in electronic benefit transfer funds during the ongoing government shutdown. ... READ MORE

FROM WHO-TV: Pedestrian killed in hit-and-run, search for suspect underway. The Iowa State Patrol says an investigation is underway after a fatal hit-and-run in Marshalltown Saturday night. According to the Iowa State Patrol, 30-year-old Melanie Katherine Nelson, of Marshalltown, was crossing South 3rd Avenue, just south of East Main Street, when she was struck by a vehicle around 10:05 p.m. ... READ MORE

FROM WOI: November’s Super Beaver Moon will be the closest and brightest of the year. Skywatchers are in for a treat this week as the year’s closest and brightest supermoon rises Wednesday night. The Super Beaver Moon will reach peak illumination at 8:19 a.m. ET on Wednesday, Nov. 5, when the moon will be about 221,817 miles from Earth.  ... READ MORE

 

FROM AROUND THE WORLD: UK police charge man with attempted murder over train stabbing that wounded 11 people. U.K. police on Monday charged a 32-year-old man with attempted murder over a mass stabbing attack on a train that wounded 11 people, and said he also tried to kill someone at a London transit station earlier the same day. ... READ MORE

FROM AROUND THE NATION: Mississippi woman kills escaped monkey fearing for her children’s safety. One of the monkeys that escaped last week after a truck overturned on a Mississippi roadway was shot and killed early Sunday by a woman who says she feared for the safety of her children. ... READ MORE

FROM AROUND THE STATE: Home unlivable, two firefighters injured during Le Mars house fire. Le Mars Fire & Rescue says two firefighters were injured while fighting a house fire in southwest Le Mars Saturday afternoon. The Le Mars Fire-Rescue Department says crews were called to the 3300 block of Sadona Hills South around 6:43 p.m. Saturday on reports of a house fire. Upon arrival, fire crews found the west side of the home engulfed in flames and smoke. ... READ MORE

 

Clear Mortgage meteorology

Temps in the 60s this week! Might see a sprinkle in spots Tuesday. Three light rain chances ahead: one late Thursday evening into early Friday morning, one Saturday, and the third next Sunday.

For help with pre-approvals or refinancing, get in touch with Originating Branch Manager Carrie Hansen at carrie.mortgage.

 
Pollen tracker
 
Tree pollen: None
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Ragweed pollen: Low
 
 
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Back to the Biz
The meals President Trump was served last week in Japan were heavily seasoned with diplomacy. On his 2019 trip to Japan, Trump was served the finest Kobe beef from Tokyo’s top steakhouse. This time, new Prime Minister Sanai Takaichi chose American beef and American rice. Japanese media were infuriated. But Takaichi also agreed to allow 75% more American rice be imported. Along with the American rice, eggplant from Nara, Takaichi’s home prefecture, was served. The New York Times quoted a Japanese official saying that Japanese rice was too subtly brilliant for Trump to appreciate.

Big shift in the Drake neighborhood? Haiku closed last month following Panka Chicken, Fong’s Pizza, La Rosa and Jethro’s, all excellent restaurants that also gave up on the Drake neighborhood north of University. Gen Z (19-29 year olds) is notoriously spending less money in restaurants and bars than all generations since WWII. Is that it? Or is the neighborhood’s commerce shifting south? Let us know what you think.

Deals today
• Chuck's (3610 Sixth Ave., Des Moines) Monday special is three for $25 on all appetizers.
 
• Hy-Vee Market Grilles offer a Monday special smoked chicken hindquarter with corn bread and corn on the cob for $8.

• Bubba (200 10th St., Des Moines) has a Monday night sirloin dinner special for $20. 

• Kelly's Little Nipper (1701 E. Grand Ave.) offers a "Monday grind" special grinder and fries basket for $9.50.

• Monday brings prime rib specials to both Chicago Speakeasy (1520 Euclid Ave., Des Moines) and Christopher's (2816 Beaver Ave., Des Moines).

• Trostel's Greeenbriar (Merle Hay Road, Johnston) has a Monday burger with a side and beer deal for $14.  

• Beaver Tap (4050 Urbandale Ave., Des Moines) has $8 omelets and $10 hot beef sandwiches or Mexican bowls on Mondays.

• Johnny's Italian Steakhouses have a chicken de Burgo special on Mondays before 4 p.m., $14 including beverage.
 
Smoking Goat Pub (3015 Merle Hay Road, Des Moines) hosts Shelby Smokehouse Soul Food on Mondays, 5-9 p.m.
 
• G Mig's (126 Fifth St., Valley Junction) has $11 smashburgers today with a side.
 
 The Station on Ingersoll (3124 Ingersoll, Des Moines) has a Monday special Graziano grinder with a side for $12.
 
• The Continental (407 E. Fifth St., Des Moines) offers a Monday special double smashburger and shoestring fries, $12.
 
• Bad Dog Burgers include three 1/3-pound patties, six pieces of bacon, choice of cheese, lettuce, tomato, pickle and onion for $10.95 on Mondays at Kathy’s East 14th Street Tavern (3418 E. 14th St., Des Moines).
 
• Jethro's have a Monday chicken tenders and fries special, $9.95.

• Angry Goldfish (2301 S.W. Ninth St., Des Moines) offers specials on chicken Parmesan and lasagna today, $11.50 with garlic bread and salad.

• Eastside Eddie’s (3517 E. 26th St., Des Moines) Monday special is a burger with domestic beer, soft drink or well drink for $10.

• Centro (1003 Locust St., Des Moines) offers half-price pizza and Peronis on Monday.

• Who's on First (810 E. First St., Ankeny) has steak night on Monday, and it's an 8-ounce filet with salad, mashed potatoes and beans for $22.95 

• Pelican Post (265 50th St., West Des Moines) has a special today on hot beef sandwiches, $10.95 until 4 p.m. 

• Tito’s Lounge (3916 Urbandale Drive, Urbandale) offers all-you-can-eat wings Mondays. 

• Johnny's Hall of Fame (302 Court Ave., Des Moines) has $12 burger baskets on Mondays and Fridays.

• Urban Cellars (640 S. 50th St., West Des Moines) offers $60 wine dinners for two on Mondays including two entrees with soup or salad, a dessert and a bottle on wine. 

• Club 2000 (422 Indianola Road, Des Moines) has a burger basket with fries deal Mondays for $9. 

• Red Lobster's Monday special is lobster and shrimp scampi with a side for $20. 

• Paula's (524 Elm St., Valley Junction) has a Monday special homemade tomato soup with grilled cheese sandwich for $12.50. 

• Destination Grille (2491 E. First St., Grimes) has a Monday steak night special, sirloins and truffle fries for $18.

• Price Chopper delis offer two-piece, bone-in fried chicken dinners, with two sides and a roll, for $6 on Mondays. 

• Fareways have specials through Saturday on red or black grapes at $1.88/pound, boneless USDA Choice chuck roast at $6.99/pound, and tubes of 80/20 hamburger at $3.99/pound.
 
— Jim Duncan, jd91446@aol.com

 
 
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While the Des Moines Civic Center and Des Moines Performing Arts often take the spotlight for theatre in Des Moines, a few local community theatres are also flourishing in the metro. One of those is Tallgrass Theater Company in West Des Moines. Few have done more for the theatre’s advancement than Tom Perrine.

Perrine and his husband, Bob, own Frame Works in Johnston. While Perrine’s day job deals with hanging and framing art, his volunteer work allows him to help direct, act and set the stage for another kind of art. ...

 
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Alkozi helps others as he was helped
Giving back with time and language skills

By Rich Wicks | Clive Living

Wafi Alkozi, along with his five siblings and his parents, moved to Des Moines from Afghanistan. Naturally, the family needed help to adjust to life in a new country. At first, the family was living in a hotel and did not know where to turn for help. Clive Community Services provided essential assistance to help the family get basic needs met.

“We are a family of eight. My father helped the U.S. military, not directly, but indirectly. We came here in 2024. We didn’t know anyone to help us or tell us what to do. We didn’t know about the system, how it works,” Alkozi says. “Finally, we realized there are food pantries to help people who can’t afford food. So, we came here, and they welcomed us and helped us. We got food and clothes.”  ...

 
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Sports headlines
 FROM SPORTS ILLUSTRATED: Nebraska QB Dylan Raiola Out for Season After Suffering Broken Leg vs. USC. Nebraska just suffered a season-altering blow.
The Cornhuskers got a second dose of bad news on Sunday, hours after losing at home to USC 21-17. Quarterback Dylan Raiola was knocked out of the game in the third quarter after having his leg rolled up while being sacked. He did not return. Now we know the severity of the injury. ... READ MORE
 
FROM ESPN: Jaguars kicker Cam Little sets NFL record with 68-yard FG. Jacksonville Jaguars kicker Cam Little hit an NFL-record 68-yard field goal as time expired in the first half of Sunday's 30-29 win over the Las Vegas Raiders at Allegiant Stadium. ... READ MORE
 
FROM YAHOO SPORTS: The 14 most absurd moments from the Dodgers' Game 7 win. There has never been a game in MLB history like Game 7 of the 2025 World Series. After 11 innings of back-and-forth drama, the Los Angeles Dodgers emerged from a series that potentially shortened life spans in both L.A. and Toronto as the first repeat champions MLB has seen in 25 years. ... READ MORE
 

1957: Soviet Union launches a dog into space. The Soviet Union launches the first animal to orbit the earth into space — a dog nicknamed Laika — aboard the Sputnik 2 spacecraft. ... READ MORE

1964: D.C. residents cast first presidential votes since 1800. On Nov. 3, 1964, residents of the District of Columbia cast their ballots in a presidential election for the first time since 1800. The passage of the 23rd Amendment in 1961 gave citizens of the nation’s capital the right to vote for a commander in chief and vice president. They went on to help Democrat Lyndon Johnson defeat Republican Barry Goldwater in 1964, the next presidential election. ... READ MORE

1992: Dianne Feinstein elected California senator in the “Year of the Woman.” Dianne Feinstein, the former mayor of San Francisco, makes history on Nov. 3, 1992, when she wins election to the U.S. Senate. The first woman to represent the state of California in the upper chamber, she joins a record number of women winning seats in Congress that year, earning 1992 the label "Year of the Woman.” ... READ MORE

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These celebrities were born on this date:   Kendall Jenner, Dolph Lundgren, Roseanne Barr, Kate Capshaw, Dennis Miller, Ever Anderson, Adam Ant, Phil Simms, Courtney Barnett

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Morning chuckle

The answer to the last riddle: What do vampires drink at happy hour? B POSITIVE! Or, BLOODY MARYS! - Carolyn Rogers, Paula Becker, Bill Snyder, Kris Laurson.

Today's riddle:  Why did the corn go to therapy?

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